Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Dating websites are now integrated into our culture. Millions of people use them every day. This is one of the fastest-growing industries on the Internet.
With all those singles online right now, the chances of your finding a good woman who meets your criteria are high.
Here are five reasons why men should use dating websites.

1. Convenience: Online dating is really convenient. You can use it 24 hours a day, seven days a week. You don't have to dress up. You can even be in your underwear while interacting with very interesting women, without offending anyone.

2. Lots of single women: There are millions of single women looking for single men online right now. Thousands of new women join every day.
The chances of your meeting a woman you like increase with the number of women available to you. And there are all types of women online: successful, poor, round, skinny, outgoing, extroverted, introverted, unworldly, educated, and more. Since your exposure is not limited to women with whom you have direct contact in real life, you have the chance to meet women you never could have met otherwise.

3. Easy contact: Once you've found the profile of a woman you like, it is very easy for you to contact her. You are only a few clicks away! If you are in a chat room, the contact is instant. You can easily end up interacting with five different women in an evening when using dating websites.

4. Interested women: Women using online dating sites are actively looking for a good man. And they are not all just there waiting for a good man to contact them. Women do also contact men first on dating websites. If you have a good profile with a nice picture that makes you look your best, you will certainly end up with some women contacting you first.

5. Inexpensive dates: With online dating, you get much more for your money than with any other way of meeting women. The approximate cost of a membership is between US$20 and US$60 per month. That's basically less than the cost of one night out.
If you go out to a club, for example, you will probably end up spending the equivalent of a month's membership cost or more, and you are not even assured of getting in contact with interesting women.
With online dating, in one evening you can easily be in contact with five different, interesting women, and you're more likely to communicate with them again in the future.
Online dating is now part of our society and culture. This is a way to meet singles, just like any other way that exists, and it has some very solid advantages.
If you use the available tools of online dating properly, by creating a good, honest, sincere, and attractive profile and including a good picture of yourself, there is no reason not to expect success on those dating websites.
There are lots of single women out there who are looking for a good man. Just go ahead, join a good dating website, and enjoy.

Saturday, December 27, 2008

5 Successful Ways to Meet Your Match Through Friends

A friend who knows you well announces there's a special person you need to meet- and you feel great. You feel even greater when that person really turns out to be as special as he or she was described.And the best? When it becomes a real relationship.But how often does that happen?Not as often as it could, even though friends mean well.Fortunately this simple prep work can improve your success rate:1. Tell friends, relatives, neighbors, etc. what you're looking for. Be specific, but not intimidatingly so. Describe the traits that matter to you. Skip the rest.In the process of exploration, you may discover additional qualifications-or erase some unnecessaries from your list.Keep potential matchmakers informed. Never overburden them with too many specifics or too many changes. Make sure they never think you are relying on them as your only path to romantic bliss.2. Let everyone know that thoughts they have, or introductions they make, will be appreciated and not dissed. Keep your word-even if it kills you.Does that mean you're not allowed to re-clarify what you need and want afteran awkward fix-up or two?Nope. It just means that no one should feel you are unappreciative, nasty or demanding about something they are doing simply out of friendship.3. If your fix-up providers are single and looking, set them up with someone cool-but never with someone you secretly want for yourself.Half-hearted efforts are insulting. If you're thinking of a possible fix-up, and you're just not sure, ask for input. Who knows what she wants better than she does? (Or he, of course.)4. Be appreciative of all efforts, even if imperfect. Give tons of credit for what they are doing right. And a gentle hint about what could be better: "He had the coolest eyes and so amazingly polite! You know what I like, Kim. If he didn't live in another state, I'd have proposed myself, I swear. I'm just no good at long-distance romance."5. Tell potential matchmakers what you don't mind in a date if it's unusual. Otherwise friends may assume your preferences are like theirs. For example, a friend of mine who is five-foot-eleven-without-heels doesn't mind guys who are five inches shorter.She doesn't prefer them, but it is really okay with her as long as they are smart, confident, and warm-hearted.Without this information, we might have steered away from certain introductions. Today she dates a five-foot-seven attorney and is blissfully happy.Same goes for not caring too much about looks, bank accounts, religion, or educational level. Or caring very deeply about certain of these.When a match happens, no matter how long it took or how fleeting it is, thank your helpers profusely. If you can, repay their efforts

Friday, December 26, 2008

Dating for What?

The word dating is derived from ‘date’. When they word “date” is uttered among youth it implies to much more than the date as a chronological reference to time in terms of time as we know and the calendar we follow. For the youth it means an appointment with a friend of opposite for an evening or night out. For an adult ‘date’ has same meaning as the youth but it is not restricted to fun and holding hands and mumbling few niceties before the farewell. Adult dating implies to creating a space for love, romance or a long-term relationship and casual or pre-mediated hot, torrid sex encounter. Another negative aspect of dating on land is that anonymity cannot be maintained easily and squarely as you would like to at least in the initial stages. The adult dating world is very complex and mired in confusion for many. The reason is that dating on land as such was a very frustrating affair as interaction with the opposite sex was restricted to social clubs, work place, community and few other outlets. Thus if within these venues you could not find a soul mate or a sex partner then you had to wait for eternity for that chance meeting (if ever) with a perfect person. Or catch hold of who ever you found near suitable and risk the chance of facing frustration in later period of life.Internet has changed that, the fantastic information transmission and connectivity that it has ushered has brought about a paradigm shift in the way we date. Not only the way we date but even in our sexual attitudes and orientations. If you visit any online dating site you will realize as to how valid the above fact is. Browse the adult personals of any major dating service and you will realize how varied the expression of sexual desire and sexual preference is. In a fast changing society the expression of word sex is no more a taboo. People now flaunt their sexuality more openly and are not afraid of experimenting with different lifestyles as is apparent in case of swinging among couples know as swingers or adult swingers. Swinger sex albeit not acceptable to traditionalist has brought about a revolution in sex lives of married couples. The aspect of sharing once wife or swapping partner for sex is now nothing new. One good look at swinger’s personals will make that apparent. Even as a single you can sex with swinger’s if acceptance is there – since there are many combinations that are popular among swingers from twosome sex to threesome sex and orgies. BDSM and fetishist also find there kind in these websites.Similarly the alternate sex seekers like bisexual, gay and lesbians have surfaced evenly in Internet dating thanks to anonymity it provides to out personals in a world which still refers to homo sexuality as “queer”. There are now specific portal which are service providers for alternate sex seekers and are referred to as gay dating sites and lesbian dating site which are targeted on gay sex and lesbian sex. Many portals offer the option of ethnic or religious dating on lines of your desire to date with a person of same faith or ethnicity or have interracial relationship.You can virtually date anyone in the world as people can post their profiles on any dating service now along with their photos. You can interact with people you like using online chat or live webcams to get to know them better before you take the plunge of meeting them. This will take you to a long term relationship a matrimonial alliance or a rollicking sex date what ever you wish.Hence when you visit an online dating site make sure of what you wish for and accordingly choose a site that is focused on singles dating, sex dating, gay lesbian or swinger’s sex or even just friendship. Then there matchmaking services or adult friend finders that are region specific in case you are looking for dating within your country or in a local area. There are portals which offer everything under one roof making your task easier. Be careful there portals that offer everything and deliver nothing. They will cheat on your credit cards and most of the profiles posted would be fake or inactive. Prefer site which give free registration thereby giving you a chance for exploring the site before you commit financially. In most of the trusted sites privacy, anonymity and safety is assured. Just be focused what kind of dating you are in for to have a successful online dating experience.